Affinity vs enmity is the name of the game. One of the most important decisions you will ever make in your life. It can take a while for your brain to adjust to the new fangled affinity and you are left to your own devices. Most of your mates are at work or play and you need to wrangle a tummy to make the most of the situation. The best way to achieve this is by figuring out the big picture and not the tummy. Getting this done will not only make your mate happy and keep the spouse and kiddos contented but it will also make for a more productive you.